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Inspiration: Observations On Life So Far

 
Author: Jeff Herring

When communicating with your spouse, its important to remember that from the other side of the table, what looks like a 6 to you looks like a 9 to the other person.

Life is not like a sports highlight film. Its lived out day to day with both highlights and lowlights, and everything in between.

We live in a very reactive society. Yet reacting (without thinking) usually leads to disaster, while responding (with thinking) most often leads to success.

As parents, we need to verbalize our love. If we dont say it, it wont be truly captured in the hearts of our children.

Humanitarianism (love for people put into action) is not the same as humanism (the worship of self).

While its very important to teach our children to share, its equally important to remember that asking them to share their toys is like asking us to share our car or our house.

Have you ever noticed how our society seems to equate self worth with net worth?

After about 43 years of being able to read, it still simply amazes me how a good book can take you away into a whole other world.

There are only 3 questions that must be answered when you desire to make a change in your life: what do I want to change? - why do I want to change it? - how do I go about changing it?

When it comes to figuring out the meaning of a persons behavior, once can be an isolated incident, twice can be a coincidence, three times is a pattern.

Heres two quick ways to change your mood: 1) change the way you are using your body, sit differently, stand strong, get your head up, 2) change what you focus on, because if you focus on what you cant do, youre right. And if you focus on what you can do, youre right.

Understanding where a behavior comes from is not as important as changing the behavior, just as understanding where a problem comes from is not as important as solving the problem.

Procrastination is one of the main killers of success. The next time you are tempted to procrastinate, try this: just put it off. Thats right, tell yourself you will procrastinate later and just do it now.

The best quote Ive come across lately: Its easy to carry the past as a burden instead of a school. Its easy to let it overwhelm you instead of educate you. - Jim Rohn

The other best quote Ive read lately comes from speaker and author Stephen Covey: The place to start is not with the assumption that work is non-negotiable; its with the assumption that family is non-negotiable. That one shift of mind-set opens the door to all kinds of creative possibilities. Amen.

Author Bio:

Jeff Herring

Jeff is a marriage and family therapist, singles and relationship coach, mentor coach, speaker, syndicated relationship columnist and author.

Jeff has a full time private practice in Tallahassee in which he specializes in couples, teen and parent counseling. He also is a relationship coach specializing in working with couples and singles. Some of his professional activities include:

==> Internationally syndicated relationship columnist through Knight-Ridder/Tribune Media Services, with a weekly readership of over 10 million worldwide

==> Sought after speaker for organizations, associations, churches, and corporations

==>Twice weekly appearances on The Steve and Sara Show on Magic 107.1

==> Author of "Keep the Changes: 52 Tools for Successful Living" a collection of his best columns, as well as several e-books including "How to Create a Passionate and Loving Relationship.........Forever," "How to Beat the BOZOs: Dealing with difficult people without becoming one," and "Tame Your Teen: THE survival guide for parenting your teenager.

==> Founder and CEO of TheArticleGuy.com

==> Founder and CEO of SecretsofGreatRelationships.com

==> Founder and CEO of ParentingYourTeeanger.com

==> Founder and CEO of ToolsforSuccessfulLiving.com

==> President of BuildingYourIdealPractice.com

==> President of ConsciousDatingTallahassee.com

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